Real Housewives of San Francisco

The exploratory musings of an honest-to-God married lesbian work-from-home tech founder in Twin Peaks

Consent Before Cryptography

My talk for Atmosphere Conference 2026

April 30, 2026

Why E2EE?

We either have private lives, or we don’t. 

February 04, 2026

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1 Year on the AT Protocol: Part II

Unpacking the Invisible PDS

December 16, 2025

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1 Year on the AT Protocol: Part I

Putting Social Media Back on the Internet

December 09, 2025

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Communication Is a Responsibility, but Ghosting Is a Right

Boundaries mean you love yourself. What's scary about that?

October 28, 2025

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Theories of Love Island

(Or, Soft-Core Labor at the End of Empire)

October 16, 2025

Why blog?

Why, in the year of (y)our lord 2025, would I start blogging again? 

September 29, 2025

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